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writes:I`ve had three lovers in my life and the biggest of the three was my ex hubby just at 5inches and 5inches in girth before my bf now witch is almost 4inches long and 4.5 around. I noticed the difference the first time he put it in and I was let down but didn`t care cuz I don`t now what 7+ feels like. I`m really tight and had a C-section so I`m not worried about girth but the longest thing I`ve ever had in me was my slim vibe that was 6inches that my ex got me. I could put it all the way in till the turn dial on the end was inside me no problem. I`ve looked it up and found that woman love the deep sensation past the cervix on the posterior fornix that causes mind blowing orgasms for some. I get hit on all the time so I`m good looking but not a cheater. My friend asked me how big this man I'm dating was and I lied and said 7"long and 5 around cuz I`m afraid someday it might come out and crush him. My friend said "wow he`s only a inch smaller than Mike witch is just shy of 8 but a lot thicker at 6.5 in girth. She wants to hook me up with this guy just so I know what its like. So am i missing out on some good sensations/orgasms and try Mike out because I've never had a vaginal orgasm ? And could someone describe what it`s like to orgasm vaginally from a big one, and how big does it have to be for you personally for it to feel at its best?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): The first comment I have is that I feel really sorry for your boyfriend that you are talking about him like this. Great orgasms which are created through vaginal penetration alone can be regularly achieved, but it takes great communication, relaxation, good rhythm/positioning and not a monster knob OK. A vaginal orgasm is a delight, but will not occur easily without an extremely experienced man, who knows the nuances of your body. It doesn't seems that your boyfriend knows you at all if you can't work this out with him. A big penis hurts, so there you are.If you sleep with 'rent a knob' then you will not gain anything. Women talk a lot of rubbish about men's penises, it makes men feel rubbish...it's unfair, and just turns us into bits of meat...we are far more beautiful and deep and sexy. Please don't behave like a man, you are not a man...I don't even know many men who behave like you are suggesting. Be sensual, be beautiful, be faithful, be open, then you will be happy and maybe then achieve the O !
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (18 May 2010):
 All discussion about size? I feel sorry because such discussion will not through any light on most important aspect of sexual activity. Just check,.. Sex is pleasure giving activity,... than it must have 'cause'. Some quality must work as cause, from where the result of pleasure[or orgasm] is rooted.
IF YOU THINK 'SIZE' IS 'CAUSE', responsible for pleasure, then it is dreaming, it is not correctly 'reasoned'. It is certainly illusion, not real. Not absolute truth. There is no universal truth in matter of size.
I am not going to present 'cause' here...but suggest to think over it and find out on your own...the true reason, that bring same result for every one.
I promise...to present 'cause', but want to inspire for thinking.
The rule is clear...when there is action, then there is 'cause' also.
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reader, called Steve  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Sorry to hijack the thread but...
Is it just me that HATES - text speak?
Apart from that - size does matter... but so does a nice V! If you cheat on your BF it would sure serve you right if he tried a female with a tighter V, just so he could experience a mind blowing Orgasm too!
Steve
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (16 May 2010):
I agree with everything riv said. Well done, riv.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 I appreciate your bravery and honesty by posting this here. I am not judging you. If guys can think with their dicks why can't women think with their pussies? Women always trade up every time they get a new boyfriend. In my experience anything around 6-7 inches is the best. You and your boyfriend probably won't work out. You would always be thinking about other guys and ask him how much deeper can you gon in? Use riv's excuse to break it off with him before he falls in love with you. When you talk to Mike make sure you don't stare at his groin the whole time and when you open your mouth make sure it's not like this: "Hi Mike I heard that you are an 8 inch that's why I talked to you." No just kidding. You should make an extra attempt to know him as a person. I don't believe in karma but think about it. What are you going to do if in the next life you are a short guy with a 4 inch penis 4 inches around?
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reader, shanana +, writes (16 May 2010):
I would love to say size doesn't matter, but it does. I have found that length in particular makes a difference. If you want to try the other guy out then you need to set your guy free.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 I don't know if you should try the other guy. It's your business. I will tell you something, just as food for thought, supposing this isn't a fake post: What if I decided to try another girl, not my girlfriend, just because someone told me she's tighter, or because she had larger boobs?
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reader, riv +, writes (16 May 2010):
You obviously want to have experiences with other men besides your present bf. I don't see anything wrong with that provided you tell him that you want to see other men and he is free to see other women.On no account though should you tell him your reason is that you want to try a man with a larger penis : that would really devastate him. Just say you don't want to settle with one guy: you're at a stage when you want to play the field. As to female orgasms my own experience is that they rarely happen while my penis is inside, doing its thing : usually I come first , then slide out, then I have to continue with a couple of fingers working the vagina / clit while my lips and tongue work the girl's nipples / mouth / neck. Even then it doesn't always work but girls don't always care about orgasms. But try Mike's and report back to us ! It's good to share !
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): wow thats unfortunate for you. you have ran into some small ones. but if you don't want to cheat just buy a dildo or a vibrator. please yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Size doesnt matter what matters is satsfaction,it can be 9inches bt if he doesnt satsfy u wht gud is it.The two of u shud knw how to fuck,find better position,and presure point n then u maintain rythm ,a man tht can do that hez the man u tok abt nt jst 9 inches whch cnt last 2min.5inch or 9 inc nt bad,what matter is satisfaction.
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