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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Erm I really like this guy and i mean when i think of him my heart goes weird i proper love him. we did go out but his granny died and he wanted to be alone and that was a couple of days after he asked me out and it was like i got my dream boy and suddenly the carpet was pulled under my feet and i fell into a pit of darkness i miss him and he is going with this girl who he is only going out with because she wouldn't leave him alone. he barely talks to me or texts me. I want him to like me again but i don't think its possible :'( but in your mind what do you think is the best solution ?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 If he really broke up with you because his granny died, wouldn't he be with you now instead of someone else? Just move on and find a guy who's right for you. Delete his number and don't hang around waiting for them to break up because it'll only make you look desperate- and that's never attractive.
Best of luck :)
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (16 May 2010):
 This boy has a girlfriend so leave him alone. You cannot make him like you or change life circumstances like grandparents dying. If he wanted to date you then he would, but he has another girl. She maybe pushy but he must want to be with her or else he wouldn't bother. The best solution is to learn to like yourself enough not to settle for being second best, or longing for the unobtainable. It just destroys you in the end. You don't 'proper love him' because you haven't had a relationship with him and you don't know him well-enough yet. You just have an enormous crush on him. If he didn't follow through on the date then he is not the boy for you. You cannot go through life settling for any old treatment, only date boys who treat you right.
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