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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend just recently approached me about open relationships.. asking what i thought of them and if i would ever be in one. This kind of bothers me seeing as i feel we are growing apart. i told him i didn't like the idea and thought they were stupid. I asked him what he thought and he said they weren't a bad idea and he would probably try it with someone if the opportunity presented itself. I asked him if people had approached him about being in a relationship with him- he said yes.. i want to know if this is something i should be worried about- i do not want an open relationship or him cheating on me. But i want to know if you think he didn't ask me to be in an open relationship because i said it was stupid first. I am just wondering if i should be concerned at all or not.. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (16 May 2010):
You are how old? Open relationships are for people who are tired of each other but have gotten to used to living together.
At your age two people really should have eyes only for each other.
No, you shouldn't be concerned. You should be dumping.
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male
reader, Danielepew +, writes (16 May 2010):
He's suggesting that you have an "open relationship", meaning he will sleep with others in full knowledge you won't sleep with others. Yes, you should be concerned.
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