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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi my husband works 10hrs a day so we see each other for 1hr a day cause he has to sleep anyway he has a friend and where looking for an apt 1br but he has make plan behind my back and they pick a time and look at the place even though I for gave him. Their still making plans also their deciding if he is going to take it so I told him since I'm not a part I'm not going but he said thati go where he go he is really insain Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (17 May 2010):
Well, that just doesn't seem fair. Seems to me, if you really don't have time to look together, then he should be looking (with his friend, whatever) and then you should go separately and check the place out yourself. Then, when you get together, you can make a joint decision. It's your apartment too, and you should definitely have half the say in the ultimate decision!! Good luck, sweetness!
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