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writes:I really like my best guy mate and ive liked him for ages. a few weeks ago we were talking on msn and he asked me who i fancy and i said i didnt want to tell him. he then told me that he kinda has feelings for two people and he would tell me one of his if i told him mine. he then just told me that one of the people is me so i told him that i like him. after a bit he told me that he was gonna ask me out a while back but thought he would get rejected. i really like him but he hasnt asked me out and i know he has feelings for someone else as well and im too shy to ask him out. what should i do? should i get a friend to ask him for me or wait and see if he asks me and if he doesnt just try to get over it? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): give him time. he might not be too sure about his own feelings. he might just need time to sort things out. if he really likes you, he should have no problem with asking you out but it might take time. if you really want and feel you can not wait, try talking to him, see how he feels about you, if he still feels about you in that way. whatever you do dont ask a friend to ask him for you. best of luck
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 You told him that you like him and he should have no problem inviting you out .
You wait for him to invite you and if he does not , you could suggest to him , "How about going to the movies, drinks or just meet up?" Then if he is interested , you both can decide where and when.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): Whatever you do, DO NOT ask a friend to ask him out for you, that's just, how should I say... immature. (Yes, I know you're young, but it still won't leave a good impression.)
As you're lucky enough for him to like you back, I think you should talk to him face to face and ask him what he wants. He might need some time to sort out his feelings, but at least you won't worry for nothing.
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