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female
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30-35,
*ady tasha
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. we spoke on the phone once a day. His 27 and I am over the last five days he's not be answering m texts and phone calls on the four day i got a message saying that he was sorry for not talking and told me that we were moving to fast! I don't know what to do because he hasn't said he want to end it.
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reader, Christine82 +, writes (16 May 2010):
Ok, you need to call him once, if he doesn't answer leave a message telling him that you need to talk to him asap. When you talk to him you need to ask him whether he wants to be with you. If he says he feels it's moving too fast be understanding toward him and give him time and space, lots of men are scared of commitment. But you also don't want him to take forever to give you an answer so tell him you'll speak to him in a week, 3 days or something to get his reply. If he decides he will carry on in this relationship then take things slow, go for a meal then both go back to your own houses. Good luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 You need to pull back and let him do the chasing. Don't call him or contact him unless it is necessary or urgent.
That will give him the perception that you are slowing down .
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Let him pursue you...stop texting him and calling him. If he is interested in you, he will call and text you. You are the woman, therefore your position in this situation is to just sit back and watch...if you don't like what you see or how you are being treated, then make the best decs. for yourself at that point.
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