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writes:hi,I'm 32 and believe it or not, but I've never had a boyfriend :( No guy has ever really shown an interest in me. I've never been on a date or even kissed a boy. No one has ever asked me out. I'm starting to feel it's too late for me now, since even if someone did show an interest in me, I would be so embarrased at my lack of experience. What do I say when they ask me about previous relationships?I would love a companion but do you think it's too late for me now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): You're 32. You're still young! And it depends on how you represent yourself.
My friend is 33 and she's prettier than a lot of college girls. That's because she takes care of herself, has a smile that lits up an entire room and doesn't shy away from showing her immature side.
It's a big contrast to a relative of mine (32) who has completely let herself go, dresses in these boring, shaggy clothes, cut her hair short in a uninspired hairdo and just looks tired all the time. She also moans a lot and reminds me of an old woman rather than a relatively young one.
If you feel yourself going toward the latter, get your act back together. Go to the hairdresser, get pampered, do sports and other things you enjoy and try to smile more often. You don't have to be commercial-happy, but people generally like to be around upbeat individuals. Also, if you participate in more activities, you will meet more people, of which there may be the right man for you.
And I think a man will be honored if he's the first for you. A gem among duds. Some men don't appreciate that, but others will, trust me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): honey,its nevr too late. you just got to go after somebody if you really like them, ask them to go on a date.. tell them anout yourself. if they ask you about the relationships you have been in... just come clean and tell them that you really havent been in any relationships before, if they really care they will understand. if you dont know anything about relationships, just ask a friend who has been in a relationship what to do and how to act.
im sure you will finally meat the right person! best of luck(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): Better to have too few previous relationships on your track record than too many.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Just go for it!! You sound borderline depressed, it's never too late, don't let yourself get down about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): when someone asks you about previous relationships just say you have bnever before wnated to be in one- you were too young and wanted to enjoy life and not be tied down. now ou feel you want to- you are ready. when you start seeing a guy, dont tell him youve never been kissed- maybe do when youve been with him for a couple of months. if i were you, id go to a club, get abit drunk, and snog someone random, because first kisses really dont matter. its your first time ive always felt that matters so you can wait for that. about you never having a bf, i dont mean to be shallow but this is what the world is like these days- are you overweight? do you wear really unfashionable clothes? if so, go shopping, go on a diet, and wear some makeup. it is very shallow but thats the way it is- even if people dont like to admit it. remember, its never too late to change your lifestyle for the better. hope this helpsxx
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reader, zos +, writes (16 May 2010):
ITS NEVER TO LATE FOR LOVE. And if you allow yourself to believe its to late, it will show. So what you have never been in a relationship, your not the only one. What you have to beleive is when the right one comes along, whatever you say about asbsense of your past relationship, he will understand because the past doesnt matter. Also lack of experience is sometimes a good thing. Learning new things with your partner may be the fuel for the relationship to keep going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): No it's never too late. No one knows when they are going to meet someone, you just turn a corner and they are just there. If you read through this site you will see that there are guys your age and older that feel just the same. Make sure your not sitting at home expecting someone to come knocking your door.
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