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30-35,
*iffany0314
writes:Alright, so my first real long-term boyfriend of 3 months and I broke up about four months ago. Since then, after we got over the awkwardness of being around each other after the break up, it seems we can't keep our hands off each other whenever we're together! Before we dated, we knew each other for 10 years and were really good friends for two. Anyway, part of the reason we broke up was because I wasn't ready to do the things he wanted to do (still a virgin) and because of all the drama. But now whenever we're alone together, we'll cuddle and kiss and be cute... and he'll push me up against the wall and get rough. ;) how I like it. But the truth is, I never stopped liking him. And I don't know if he feels the same.. or if he's just using me, thinking that I'd be willing to give him what he wants this time around. He's a total flirt, extremely popular, a smooth talker, and total eye candy. But he doesn't date much, only the girls he truly likes. I don't know if he's just buttering me up and feeding me bullshit so he'll get what he wants,.. or if he truly does care as much as he says he does. So,.. does he like me? He did date me,.. and even now he continues to chase me, even though he cooould be getting ass from plenty of other girls easily. How do I find out if he likes me still? And if his intentions are true and he's not just using me? I truly think I'm in love with him,.. but I'm just not ready to give up my virginity to him, especially since we're no longer dating. And no, I don't want to ask him straight up if he still likes me or not. How else can I find out? Thanks!
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reader, riv +, writes (16 May 2010):
To be totally frank - you won't like this but it's a male perspective - you come across as a bit of a teaser....Of course he wants sex with you : that's not a bad thing it's just a normal male need \ desire. If he's as nice and as horny looking as you say why can't you just get on with it and enjoy some sex with him , using condoms of course ?Sounds to me like he has other opportunities to get his pants off and if you don't want him to take them yes quite honestly you will need to allow him into yours. You prob need to establish in advance whether it's to be an exclusive or open relationship though [ my advice would be let it be open for both of you].
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 Have you ever heard about "the thrill of the chase "?What is readily and easily available is less intriguing for any of us than what implies a challenge.Yes,he is using you. If he really liked you- he'd ask you to get back together. The fact the he is phisically attracted to you means -that he is phisically attractedto you.Period. Well,of course he does not dislike you, he does not mind to spend some time with you. But I hope for you you won't settle for so little.FWB situations are difficult to handle for mature,experienced women. For a young virgin- it's totally not your cup of tea.
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