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Did he lie about using a condom?

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Question - (16 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I recently met my childhood crush in the park. He had grown to be rather handsome, and I sat next to him talking about memories. He then asked who I had liked in college, I said he was my sweetheart. He then cupped my face and snogged me, then asked whose house we could go to. I ended up at his. He then started to take my clothes off and I unzipped his jeans and gave him a blowjob. After that we had sex anal and proper. He said he had used a condom and now I am pregnant, he wont respond to my texts or open the door. What shall I do?

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (16 May 2010):

Auntie E agony auntAre you sure you are pregnant by him? To answer your question "What shall I do?" My gut reaction is to tell you to get to a clinic immediately if not sooner. This cad has already made it abundantly clear that he is not interested in you or your pregnancy. And no amount of nagging, begging or cajoling is going to change that fact. That being said - please don't do that sort of thing again. You got used.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2010):

Chances are he either didn't, or the condom split. Either way, you're now pregnant. He's not responding, so for now stop worrying about him and worry about yourself and your baby. When the time comes, if you are sure he is the father, then legally he will be obliged to take a DNA test and keep the baby. It might be worth you going to this site.

http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/

and making an appointment to see someone. They give totally free advice and will be able to help you. Good luck to you. And as I say, for now just focus on yourself and your unborn baby.

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