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writes:hey there, i am having the worst time of my lifetime. there is this girl whom i am working with, we first start it as friend,we were best of each other, she told me that i am the best person she has ever seen and god is compensation her for the time she lost in searching for people like me. As time goes by i deeply deeply fell for her, she became my world, i always think of her day and night, but i didnot tell her for one and half year because i was afraid that she think of me as friend, i was suffering in all those times,finally it became out of my control and i told her that i love her....she told me that she think of me as brother and also her ex-boyfriend has hurt her and she needs time of her own to work things out. Then, I moved far away, stopped communicating except saying hi, no calling and texting.....then on christmas day she called me to say merrychristmas...we asked each other about how we were doing, she told me that she is having a bad time as she is in a trouble. i told her i would like to help her. but lately our communication lossens again...i am confused i dont know what i am supposed to do, should i move more closer again? by the way there is physical difference between she and i, means i am short and skinny than her, do women consider such things? please help i am in a deep confusion, i couldnot even work? please i am waiting for your promot response.
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reader, screech117s  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Well if you have tried harder to communicate with her, and she seems to ignore it she isn't worth moving a long way from where your at when she isn't even a sure bet, however if you love this girl, than next time you speak with her, mention that your might move back to your old town, see how she rects, and base your ecision on that
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 January 2010):
Be careful, that's all I can say. She's said she's in trouble at the moment, so you don't want to end up dragged into a mess. I don't think she would do that to you in fairness, she seems like a great girl. I think you an afford to talk to her, but I'm not sure from what she has said that it will go anywhere.
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