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writes:There's this guy who liked me for a long time, and while he was my friend, I never liked him. The thing is, i've grown to like him. There are things about him I don't like, but they don't matter. When i'm with him, i'm happy and comfortable. but it seems my feelings for him were so sudden. would this be an infatuation or love or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 January 2010):
Awwww he's worn you down.
That's how my first boyfriend got with me.
You'll go out with him for a while and all those things you don't like about him will really upset you and eventually you'll realise you could be with someone much better.
What you have done is got used to having him around and grown addicted to having him tell you how great you are and be so nice to you.
You've been using him as a self esteem boost and you got hooked.
You need to learn that you CAN'T be friends with a guy who wants more as it's just not fair keeping his hopes up.
So if you want to get with him, get with him. I'm sure you'll have a great time but please don't think this is love, and please don't break his heart too badly.
Good Luck!! xx
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