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writes:Im 19 years old and Im scared to have sex....this guy I use to work, we had really good chemistry but things wasnt so good for me then so I quit my job and we lost contact....Recently Ive gotten back in touch with him and I would really would like for us to become couple and he would too but I think he's afraid of a relationship,,He says he wouldnt ever want to mess up friendship just because I said that before. But he's always saying how sexy I am and talking about sex and that should come over but I dont want it to lead to sex because Im a big flirt!!!......But we already act like were married,thats whats so crazy. (What should I do or say Im confused?)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for feedback....
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Here is moral statement for your guidance.
Sex in-it-self is pleasurable. So, it cannot be used to gain anything, even relationship also. You can win good relationship through attractive personality- highly intellectual, spiritual, and with very well balanced emotion.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 January 2010):
Caring guy is right.
You HAVE to let him know that it's relationship or nothing.
If you do anything with him now then he will never be your boyfriend. He will sleep with you and mess you around for years and then finally you will move on heart broken and used.
When you are flirting with him just really sexily remind him that you could be all his if only he could get over himself enough to ask you to be with him.
use it to remind him of what he's missing.
If that doesn't work then tell him there are plenty of men out there who would DREAM of having a girlfriend like you so you are off to find one who hasn't got his head so far up his own arse.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 January 2010):
Just stick to your guns about being in a relationship first. You want to be with him, and at the moment he appears to be not so bothered, which could mean he's more interested in sex than anything else. So stick your guns, and maybe ask him out on a date or something.
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