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26-29,
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writes:i dont know where to start. i live in manchester and theres this lad who lives in birmingham. i got his number and we text eachother, then in the summer holidays last year, he went wales the same time as me. he wanted to meet me, but i didnt feel comftable meeting him, i didnt know him and we had only been talking for 1-2 month. i told him i didnt want to and he was ok with it. we'd text eachother everyday, and its been happening ever since. but one day he told me he was fallin for me, and he thought it was best to tell me, even though i probably dont. the thing was. i fell for him too. i just didnt want to tell him. i told him how i felt and we was both ok. obviously. we'd text non-stop, all day, everyday. but one day, he was bein funny with me, to cut a long story short, i found out myself he had a girlfriend. i asked him what it was all about and he said he just needed someone who was there for him, who he could hold and love. we didnt text after that, then i got an email from him saying he's finished with her, but i couldnt just go back to normal. i had to trust him. i love him, and it sounds stupid because we've never met, its his personality. i just dont want to tell my friends because they dont like him, his looks, his personality,but they dont know him like i do. now he thinks im lying to him because i would go out with him, i just dont wanna tell him its because my mates dont like him, i cant help feeling like this? i dont know what to do. please help! xxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 January 2010):
Look at it a different way. He was talking to you while he had a girlfriend, and was even willing to meet. He would have cheated on her. That's why he's not worth it. Because he would have cheated. How long until he cheats on you?
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