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writes:what happens to a player when he gets too old to play? the man Im in love with I know to be a player , Ive been seeing him 6months (casual) he is 42. He is very overweight and has to use viagra and gets very puffed out during sex so I have to do all the work.But I adore him, he makes me feel so special and loved, tho I worry he makes a few other women feel the same, I just dont mention it cos I dont want to hear the truth,but are there any peeps out there who know of players that just got too old for it, too unhealthy or unwell and settled into committment, which is what i long for with himwhats the difference between a player and an emotionally unavailable man. Are they essentially the same thing or can a man be emotionally unavailable without being a player.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Essentially the same thing, a man becomes a player usually because he confessed his love to somone he loved, probably at a young age, but she never believed him was not ready, or felt too young to commit. Most men fall in love at a very young age.
Some men then turn to physical pleasure to cover the loss and pain of that, while others tend to become emotionally unavailable by continually thinking of that one person forever.
I would confess how you feel to him and then the light will be shining.
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