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writes:ive recently started going out with a lad that im crazy about ive known him for years n we have always been close. but only started going out for a few weeks. i knew when we were friends that he was going into the army but its only recently hit me hard. normaly we see each other at least once a week and text all the time. but its hit me that i wont see him for months on end and we will serously have to cut down on the texting. is it still possible for us to carry on and be how we are if hes going in the army? please help x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 January 2010):
I've been an army wife and I've seen how it is for young guys in the army.
It's hard and he'll be away a LOT.
Having a girlfriend is almost impossible for them. They don't have the time and he will be changing as the army breaks him down and builds him up again. Basic training is HARD.
I would just enjoy the time you have together and then agree to stay friends so you can meet up when he comes back.
Good Luck!! xx
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