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*nehottmama_21
writes:Hello, I'm going thru a lot right now and I know most of it was my fault. I'm still in love with the father of my child. We been broke up for a year now. Jus recently bout a month ago he got a new girlfriend. Of course I got hurt coz me and him were seeing each other until she came back around. So he chose her. Ya stupid right. Well they been dating for a month. And he still contacted me and we met up and fooled around. Lol ya while he had a girlfriend. Well anyways one day I ended up with her phone number. Didn't search for it. The number came to me. Well I started to feel bad on her part so I called her and told her that my baby daddy was cheating on her with me. Well that wasn't good I see coz now he totally hates me. Well she broke up with him fast. He hasn't been talking to me. Well previously bout a week before they broke up. I found out I was pregnant. And I know for a fact its my current baby daddy. I'm only a month along but he denys it coz he is mad at me and he thinks I was sleeping around. I dated one guy but we used a condom. Everytime me and baby daddy fooled around. We never used a condom. Well before him and his new ex hooked up. We was having sex everyday. With no protection. And he still wants to deny it and tell me he wants nothing to do with me. He won the custody battle over our first son and that hurt me enough. Well now this. Is sux. I'm a single mom. And have no job or car. I jus want him to be there for me. And now after him and that girl broke up. She confessed to me that she was lying to him and playin him with 3 other guys. I told him that but he jus ignores me. Its like I did them both a favor but I'm gettin the blame for everything. If this story makes sense to anyone. Someone plz HELP ME! I'm soooo hurt!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): I dont know what to tell you other than try to get back up on your feet and get an action-plan ready for what your steps will be now. Leave lovelife trouble for later. You have no job and no car, those things, at least the job, need more attention than your baby father needs it! And please, you should wear protection, I dont understand why you didn't use it with this man. You got pregnant once so you know how it works, also you dont know who else this man has been sleeping with without condoms, and he could be passing on an STD to you. Whether he denies being the father or not doesn't really matter. Really. Once the child is born you can easily take a test and find out that he really is the father. So dont worry about that now. Prioritize: work, pregnancy/new baby coming, car. Then at the bottom of your list of important to-do's will be your baby's father.
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