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writes:ok so i've been kissing on my best friend's ex of 3 weeks not alot but yea he came up to me and kissed me one day after 2 weeks of there break up and since then we been kissing and stuff for almost 2 weeks i like him before and i told her that and she said she was over him and had like 3 boyfriends and when she found out about us she says now she likes him??? should i keep going with the boy? o but wait me and him dont go out we just been messing around i really want to ask are we going to be boyfriend and girlfriend but i dont know because when we're at school in front of people he dont act the same especially around girls but he says he does like me, its just he dont want his ex girlfriend to see her best friend and ex boy friend doing stuff... and it sux because we have to be late to class just to be together or i have to ditch because i dont know if we're in that stage of going out out of school. im really confused should i keep going or not because i really like this boy.
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reader, rebeccaxx  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 the best thing you can do here is talk to your best friend, and be honest with her. some girls don't mind stuff like this, if they are well and truly over their ex, but some girls would see it as backstabbing. trust me, she'll be much more glad to hear it from you now, than from him or one of his mates sometime in the future. remember, friends are forever. also, if he doesn't act the same in school, he needs to get a grip, because chances are he is ashamed of being with you, which obviously means you could do so much better x
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reader, Lorenn. +, writes (12 January 2010):
You can't run from your feelings. But it does hurt when a best friend goes off with an ex. It's happened to me on numerous occasions. But; sit down and talk to her. And see what he has to say. Theres no point loosing a friend over a guy whos just gonna come and go anyway.
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