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writes: Do you think it is possible to love someone at 15 i honestly think i do..its something i can't explain and then its like there is nothing i could do to change it?... what do you think it would be very helpful Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Holli' +, writes (12 January 2010):
If you really care about someone and have certain feelings towards them than other people you may have gone out with it could mean you have more chemistry therefore making the two of you have a stronger bond and feeling very comfortable around each other, it could be love however I wouldn't think about it too deeply.
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reader, GoGreen126 +, writes (12 January 2010):
Yes, I do think it's possible. I fell in love with my best friend just before I turned 15. I'll be 16 in a few days. I don't claim to know everything or even a lot, but I do know that love doesn't know an age.
If you want to call it "love" though, I will warn you, you have to mean it and nothing less. Don't be one of those people that makes those of us that are/were in love so young have reduced credibility.
After years of friendship and liking a guy for two years, I fell in love with him. I could tell you the date and time. Something changed.
You know it when it happens. I can't enforce enough, though, that taking advice from elders is essential. If you are told you know nothing about love, say "yes ma'am/sir" and shut up about it. Never say to someone "you just wouldn't understand" about your relationship. I think you'd be surprised. Never claim to love someone more than the world has ever known or the like.
Each of these make your life more complicated and can make you question yourself--which could actually tear your relationship apart.
I know that all this wasn't related to your question, but your my age, and I'd like to pass on what I've learned. Love isn't to be taken lightly.
Finally, as a previous poster said, teenagers break up. It happens. Even if you dont think it'll happen to you, it very well may. Loss is hard to deal with, but it's critical that you don't give up. Work through the pain--eventually it should ebb. (I hope!)
Best of luck!
I'm sorry to have rambled.
Message me with questions--
--GG
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (12 January 2010):
You can be any age to fall in love, there's no rule stating how old you need to be. Just be careful as most of the time, we love and lose, it's just the way of the world. You are still young so don't put all your eggs into one basket as they say.
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