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writes:I am a 13, nearly 14 year old girl. All my friends constantly talk about boys, and I find that I'm not attracted to them (or anyone). I'm worried, as I feel I should have started getting crushes by now. I've started puberty. Am I asexual, or is there something wrong with me?Please help!
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (13 January 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with you at all. Just because your friends are talking about crushes doesn't mean you have to be as well. Everyone is different and for you it will come in time. Try not to think too much into it. And in the mean time if any of your friends ask you what you think f someone they like just agree and say he's alright but leave it at that.
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reader, Nice.Girl  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. You're not asexual. I was the same way when I was younger, puberty is a confusing time when you start finding yourself. Don't worry if you don't have a crush on someone, you have plenty of time to worry about finding someone to love, just enjoy being your young self.
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reader, rebeccaxx +, writes (13 January 2010):
 i'm going to start with saying, there is nothing wrong with you! :) you're only 13, i can't stress that enough. when i was 13 i was exactly the same as you are now, and i thought there was something wrong with me, i let all sorts of scary thoughts run through my head. you could maybe talk to your friends and let them know how you're feeling so they'll lay off the conversations about boys for a while, if they're real friends they will listen :) you may have started puberty, but maybe your mind is just maturing a little slower than your friends have. i repeat, i can't stress enough that there's nothing wrong with you. i'm 16 now, and have only been attracted to boys properly since last year. you'll be fine :) good luck x
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