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writes:i've got a crush on a teacher.all the kids are teasing me.i'm worried about turing my computer on because the kids leave me messages about us on facebook myspace and so on.they tease me at school too.i'm worried that my parnets will give me a speech on trusting people if i tell then what's your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): you can always close these accounts... at least, temporarily.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 January 2010):
You have 2 choices: either to wait it out knowing the teasing can't last forever or to develop a new crush as a decoy to change their focus to someone new.
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reader, Holli'  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Everyone must find atleat one teacher in their lifetime attractive, I have, I just didn't let anyone know. I wouldn't tell your parents, your best pretending you've gone off this teacher, after a while they'll forget and stop teasing you, the only reason they are is because they have noting better to do. Now I sound like my mother. Some of us machore quicker than others, and there still acting childish, next time someone says something to you about it just say,
"Can you really not find anything at all better to do than to keep making jokes about something that happened so long ago, I wouldn't mind but the jokes you make arn't actually funny!"
Stick up for yourself. Hope I helped.
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reader, mezzo_soprano_reader  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Oh, deary. I have a crush on a teacher, too, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. So you probably admire your teacher a lot (and the only reason why they're teasing is because they don't have the guts to admit they probably like the teacher, too). And the more they tease you over the net, it can be considered as cyber bullying, and that can be turned into your school if it gets bad. Of course, be careful about telling your school officials what they're teasing you about because your teacher can get in trouble, too. As long as you use appropriate words like, your teacher is your FAVORITE teacher or is someone you admire. Steer clear of the danger zone. Your biggest mistake was telling other kids you liked a teacher at your age, so be careful next time.And if you tell your parents, make sure first that they're understanding of your crush and what the other kids are doing.
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