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writes:Help! I am a 24 year old male and the problem i have is to much sex/ relationships. Every weekend i go out and i will go through between 2 and 5 woman a weekend, i cannot say no! I am a good looking guy and very cheeky and flirt alot, i have settled down in relationship for periods of time but these always go wrong due to me being unfaithful. I made myself a Newyears resolution to stop churning threw so many girls, but unfortunately that went wrong on newyears night when i slept with my older brother's girlfriend probably not the best start to the year. I find it very diffult for anyone to take me problem seriously. Guys think ur a stud, Girls can be disgusted but then will still try and get in my pants. In the past i have slept with mates girlfriends, mothers, sisters, cousins with girlfriends bestfriends with family members partners. Open to any suggestions? Apart from cutting it off!!!Thanks....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): You need to learn some self control and work out where your boundaries. Sleeping with your brothers girlfriend and the others on your list is not a good way to behave.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Hope you will excuse my sarcasm, but what a problem to have! If this clamoring to get into your britches by women continues, and it bothers you, then you could either go find a more quality girl away from the pubs and settle down, or seek the priesthood. Monks are still needed in China. Seriously, just seek a better quality woman who challenges you.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 January 2010):
What's your number??!
Ok seriously, you need to ask yourself why you have no self control. Although its pretty normal for a guy your age to get around, promiscuity can become a serious problem when you start to cross moral boundaries like sleeping with your brother's girlfriend or with your cousins. This type of behaviour is not only inconsiderate but also self-destructive, because you are going to eventually destroy your relationships with people who are supposed to matter to you. Your behaviour in these respects seem to indicate that you might be a sex addict. Google 'sex addiction' for more information to see if your behaviour matches the symptoms.
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reader, Holli' +, writes (12 January 2010):
 It wasn't the best of moves to sleep with relations or your brothers girlfriend, I wouldn't tell your brother about that either, do you want a seriouse relationship, you have to think about what you want before you go ahead and say yes to everything that moves! Do want this to stop? If so you need to controll yourself, go out and have a good time you don't have to have it off with every pretty girl you come across. Is there 1 girl who you like more than the others. Or who you want to try and get close to, try to say know a little more often, because you make yourself sound like a bit of a player, though you may like to think of yourself as a 'ladies man'. So basically if you want a seriouse relationship find someone you really want to get with, or meet someone new, if not, what do you want?
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