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writes:Help! I think I made a mistake in not dating him!I am 15 now, but when I was 14 a guy asked me out. I liked him a lot. He was smart, funny, and very handsome :) but he was 17. So when he asked me out I said no. I was scared my parents would be mad if I dated him. Now, it's been a year since we quit talking and I still think about him. When he would enter my head I would immediately try to stop thinking about him, but the fact that it has been a year makes a difference. What is wrong with me?Why can't I get over him? I have tried very hard, but it hasn't worked out. I never told my parents about him. I need to know that I made the right decision. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): I can see why this is bugging you, surely there is a reason your still thinking of this guy.If at any given moment you feel like there could be a chance again, go for it!However, remember your still young, and your gonna meet so many guys you'll have stronger feelings for throughout your life, so dont let yourself get down about this, you'll turn down people in your life, you just need to realise which ones are worth taking up your time.About the age thing, yeah your parents may not approve, but you are growing up now, and mabye something like this will make them realise this, not at first ofcourse, but after time yeah.Hope everything works out for you, and remember, dont stress yourself out over it, things happen for a reason.m u c h l o v e XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): Well, I think you should find him back! Considering your age your parents may/ may not allow you to date him. But making little progress first is a good way. Try to contact him, try to talk to him. If your parents knows about it, just tell them the truth. Do not tell any lies to them. At first they might reject it, but slowly they will adapt to it. I hope so. Just wait your a little bit more older, say 16-17. But I'm not saying that by starting now is wrong, don't cross over the line, just in moderation and things will be fine.
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