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*nce again
writes: I met this dude about a week ago. Normally I don't just rush into things. I normally stay calm and collect. But I really like this guy, and he could tell. It was him that asked me for my number. And him that started texting me. Then all of a sudden during a conversation he just stopped replying back. And I haven't been able to get a hold of him since. I do not know why either. Is he ignoring me or did something happen to his phone??? I really don't know what to think here.
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reader, Once again +, writes (7 August 2010):
Once again is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe texted me this morning and said that he just got a new phone that his other one had gotten wet.
So what yall think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): I do not understand why he is trying to avoid you...if he is trying so, why wouldn't he let you know? That will be better instead of letting you worried.
And if this doesn't get any better, I'm afraid it's not going to go anyway.
Can't turn back time, but only can change your own future.
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reader, Once again +, writes (3 August 2010):
Once again is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think he is advoiding me as well. Just wish there was something I could do to make him give me a chance. Wish I could go back and just be more cool about things.
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reader, lollypopp +, writes (2 August 2010):
A lot of guys do this, just don't try to get hold of him any more and if he is interested then he'll try to get hold of you. He's either ignoring you or trying to play it cool and if he's playing it cool then give him a taste of his own medicine... make him chase you! Boys like this as most of them like a challenge. It will be hard to do on your part if you really like this boy, but if he really likes you back then it'll work and he'll start to chase you, instead of the other way round. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): According to your situation, I think he is trying to avoid you, especially after you said that you need to talk to him and asks him to be serious. I really think that he is try to hide from you or he has another relationship himself. Sorry to say this, but it is quite clear of it. I'm sorry...
But, hope it gets better soon...Good Luck!
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reader, Once again +, writes (2 August 2010):
Once again is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell the last thing I had said to him was "I need to talk to you about something serious and I want you to be honest." And I have yet to hear from him, its been about four days since I have heard from him. We were supposed to meet somewhere tonight but he didn't show up. So I don't know if something is wrong or if he is completely advoiding me. When I call his phone it don't go straigt to voicemail, so I am assuming that its still on and working.
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reader, Once again +, writes (2 August 2010):
Once again is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell the last thing I had said to him was "I need to talk to you about something serious and I want you to be honest." And I have yet to hear from him, its been about four days since I have heard from him. We were supposed to meet somewhere tonight but he didn't show up. So I don't know if something is wrong or if he is completely advoiding me. When I call his phone it don't go straigt to voicemail, so I am assuming that its still on and working.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (1 August 2010):
1. He's avoiding you, therefore, you should move further, "I really like this guy, and he could tell" - maybe you weren't hard enough to get, so he might have lost interest pretty fast in you and he has no balls to tell you "OK, it was nice knowing you".
2. He's left with no credit on his phone, so he's not able to contact you whatsoever. If you call him just ONCE and he won't answer, you might want to reconsider your so-called relationship with this guy. Don't try to chase him and don't over-estimate this relationship. If he's not willing to contact you anymore, it's his loss.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): hey try to contact him as quick as possible.. maybe he is not able to text you back cause of some reasons..
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): Have you saw him before???
Do you know where he stays? If yes then you might want to check out from his family about his whereabouts.
Have you tried to call him? If no, then I urged you to do so immediately!
He might be ignoring you, and he might not! So start doing something!
Try to ask around if anyone knows about him or his whereabouts.
GOOD LUCK!
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