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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating this guy for 6 months, things have been up and down anyways yestrerday i saw him for a bit we're talking and he mentions that he took his car to get serviced at Lexus where his ex girlfriend works with whom he was with for 2 years and also lived with. He told me when he went there he texted her " don't want to be rude I'm here just wanted to say hi" He went on to tell me they had a conversation and she's doing good. I got upset because I felt I didn't need to know that information and he choose to tell me @ time where we only had 10 mins to spend with each other. We started arguing because he said he doesn't know what he did wrong. It frustrating to be with someone that sometimes doesn't get it. He's 34 I'm 22, was I wrong to get upset?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): He was being open and honest with you about him having contact with his ex. He just wanted to let you know that he said hi. Not everyone has the best timing, and unfortunately his was bad when he shared those details about his day. Would you rather he never tell you about women he talks to? It's OK to be a little frustrated when you only had 10 minutes to spend with him, but I'm sure his story didn't take a full 10 minutes to explain. Next time, politely change the topic of conversation instead of using the remaining moments you have to argue.
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