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writes:been with my boyfriend for a year, we love eachother very much, always cuddling. our sex life use to me so good, we had sex up to 4-5 times a week, sometimes 7 days a week (everyday) i know that in relationships sex will become less, but these past few weeks its only twice a week if im lucky, sometimes i feel like he dont want to touch me, it makes me feel so un-sexy. so lately i have been masturbating, thats how frustrated i feel. i cant talk to him about it because its always the same answer, hes tired, which i am very understanding as his job is hardwork and plus we are decorating our new home so we can move him. im also pregnant but that couldnt be the reason because im 5 months pregnant and it never stopped him until now. what can i do to make him want me? and find me sexier.
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reader, rivi  +, writes (1 August 2010):
Not enough sex sucks. Interesting it's you the woman complaining - most such complaints come from the men.
Couldn't you try organizing one day off a week completely without any work in the apartment - total relaxation for a whole day ?
And at some point have a nice hot bath together ? I agree a naked pregnant woman is a turn on - maybe it will be for him too.....
Try not mentioning the sex at all as the pressure may cause him stress causing him to have erectile probs....... just see how it goes until at least after the birth.
If you still aren't getting enough then it needs serious talking through between the pair of you and if that doesn't work then with couples counselling.
Good luck with the baby.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Pregnant women are the sexiest thing in the world but I'll bet he's terrified (like I was) to ask for sex fearing possible damage to the baby.
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