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writes:first time doing sex. i'm just curious and when is the best time to have sex before or after my period?
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 There isn't a best time because you will (I very much hope!) be using protection. And any kind of protection, when taken correctly, is effective all the time. I'm sure you are aware of all the sorts of contraception availanle to you, but if you want to know more about it then message me or google it =]
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reader, daletom +, writes (1 August 2010):
"Best" in what sense?
You are least fertile during your period, and the chances of pregnancy increase the farther you are from your period, either before or after. At your age it's common for women's periods to be uncertain enough that you can't rely on this for contraception.
If you are somewhat orgasmic, many women find that a good climax within a day or less of starting their period relieves menstrual cramps.
Your partner, especially if he is also a virgin, is likely to want more sex - a LOT more sex - once you start having sex with him. Starting right after your period is more likely to allow this; having sex just before your period gives you an excuse to decline his requests (at least for a few days).
You may benefit from reading the thread "Any advice on what to do in the bedroom on our wedding night?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/any-advice-on-what-to-do-in-the.html , and "Should I do anything special when I finally have sex with my boyfriend, since it'll be his first time?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-do-anything-special-when-i-finally.html .
(The comments from the ladies are VERY interesting!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): That choice is your own. There are many people who lose it later or even earlier than you.
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reader, babymonkey422 +, writes (1 August 2010):
 I think it's the same for most girls but of course I can't be sure but sex usually feels best right before your period because everything is really sensitive down there.
Be safe! Have him wear a condom! :D
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reader, babigurl0497 +, writes (1 August 2010):
 I think after, because your hormones are all screwed up before your period, and after there more in ordr, and you no the way you feel about somone..!!
HOPE THIS HELPS
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