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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I've been dating this guy for almost 1 year. We started having safe sex then unprotected , since Im putting myself at risk for std etc... I decided to play a trick on him by telling him I'm pregnant just to see how he wud react. His words were " if u get pregnant fir me, dude I will hate u. Al support my child though" then a couple months later we where talking over the phone all in love , wishing we cud cuddle then a call was comin in on his phone so he rudely put me on hold after he got back to me I ask him why he put me on hold cuz I wud hav finished talking to him first then call bch who so ever if I was in his shoe n this is his reply " I'm more in to my friends" I was soo hurt I hang up n ignore his calls n apologies/ excuses. I'm his girlfriend every one knows ( family) do u think I should dump him??:(
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Happy relationships require mutual respect, honesty and a degree of maturity. Neither of you seem to be demonstrating any of those qualities...so yes, dump him...for both your sakes. You really shouldn't have told him you were pregnant when you knew it wasn't true. The fact is that if you do get pregnant from unprotected sex with him, he may not take the matter too seriously. He also demonstrates a lack of respect by hanging up on you to speak to his mates. He is allowed a life outside the relationship, but he has told you in his actions and words that you are not no.1 priority. I think both of you need to be single for a while to realise that gameplaying is not the road to happiness.
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