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*imon01
writes:hi,my girlfriend of 6 years has left me. we have two beautiful daughters, one aged 4 and the other has her 1st birthday in around a weeks time. we have had a fairly turbulent but very enjoyable relationship, with a few break ups along the way which we always managed to sort out within a few days. it has been 1 week now and her attitude is completely different this time as she is saying that she just doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore. she has our daughters but is being good with regard to access etc, that is not a problem.she left me because she found out that i had been emailing an old (female) school friend for 4 years and i never told her. the rules of our relationship involved prohibition of talking to the opposite sex (due to insecurities jealousy etc).now that she has gone for good, i have really found a new appreciation for her and am struggling to cope without her. i cant eat properly, sleep properly and i have none stop anxiety through the day. i have begged her to come back home but she wont, i have offered her everything.she always wanted marriage which was a commitment that i avoided but now i would do it without a second thought. i would do anything for her but she rejects my every approach.i try to contact her as much as possible every day but i am frustrating her. she keeps telling me to leave her alone but i cannot just give up on the relationship as she has.can anybody offer me any advice on how to proceed as i cannot keep living like this. i cannot bear living life without her but she wont come home. what can i do?
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reader, MAX D  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Where to begin,to start with stop trying to contact her every day as you said yourself it is only making her more frustrated and angry.I understand that you are going through hell at the moment,but you NEED TO GIVE HER SPACE if you dont you will make things a lot worse belive me have been there my self.Leave it a few days then send her some flowers with a sorry card,then wait for her to contact you and if your relationship is as strong as you say it is she will contact you,you must rember that she has to trust you again and that is something that is earned.I hope that I have been some help Max D.
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