A
female
age
30-35,
*.love.you
writes:Hello, I am 15 and am in a relationship with a boy I trust completely.No, I'm not going to ask if sex is okay because it's only been a month! And I am saving myself for a more apropriate age.*My question is; have I hurt his feelings?/would this hurt your feelings?*The other day I went round his house and we were getting along great, his mom is awesome and so is her boyfriend - she asked us to make tea so we went into the kitchen.As I went into the garage to let out his dog I felt him behind me so I turned and hugged him, he laughed and pushed my playfully back and kissed me. His hands were roaming and I didn't mind that until he reached my stomach - I'm conscious about my stomach as it isn't very flat OR small so I moved his hand away.He seemed to find that alright and then started to kiss me, the only problem is his kissing is DIAR! So I stopped kissing him and managed to subtly wipe my mouth (yep, it's THAT bad). He tried to kiss me again but I moved my head and it continued like that for the rest of the day with two exceptions (we're talking after 1,001 tries on his part) he's never been a good kisser but it's getting worse!I've given him a double-rejection in the space of a few hours, I can't help but know that that would is enough reason to be upset but with the hints of his lack of 'xx' on the end of text messages AND when I asked him if he was free next week he said he 'wasn't sure'.From how you can see he's responded to me being normal, and the story of what happened - would you be offended and do you think I'vr offended him?Hopefully you don't mind how long it is, and I would appreciate some male opinions.Regards,Jade.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): Since you might've offended him, you should call him (not text!) and invite him to go on a walk with you or to hang out in a park. Show him you still care deeply for him and kiss on him! During this time, you could apologize for pushing him away, and explain to him why you did it.
If you don't like sloppy, spitty kisses, tell him that. He might just be unaware of how sloppy he is when he kisses you! Sometimes kisses are sloppy on accident. If he felt like he was doing something risky by kissing you while his mom was home, he might've been sloppier because of the heat of the moment!
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