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writes:I have deleted my profile from facebook when my ex told me that he was in new relationship and he was very happy. I told him be happy with her. He then said he wants to keep contact with me but as a friend. I dont know why did he say that. But I told him that it was not possible for me to maintain frienship after love. He agreed with me but requested me to keep in touch. After that day I decided to go to No Contact rule again. I deleted my profile from facebook, changed my ph no but I am not getting any response from his side. He also deleted his profile from facebook. Its not my first time when I have applied NC rule. 1st time when I went for NC rule he tried to break my NC rule for 3 months. When I broke that (because he told me he was missing me, he wanna do friendship with me), he showed his attitude to me, abused me. And said it was his mistake that he contact me again. Because he thought I was changed. So I decided to go for NC 2nd time. But this time I am not getting any response from 1 month.Is there any chance to get him back? what should I do now? If he is very happy with his new gf then why did he always tell me that he spent a great time with me but I was not his perfect match so I should marry someone else. If I do that he would be the happiest person. After breakup why did he say he wanna have sex with me and when I denied he said he was just kidding, he is very happy with his present relationship? he has found everything in that girl what he was missing in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): I am a bit confused. You say you have put a "no contact" rule into place, and you have taken steps to make that happen, by changing your number, deleting your profile, etc. But you are wondering why he is not reacting or responding. That suggests to me that you DO want contact with him. Maybe he is respecting your wish to have no contact, and is keeping away?
To be honest, it sounds like you are better off without him. If he was abusive towards you, and asked you for sex while he is with someone else, I think he is someone to steer clear of. It sounds like he is playing games with you, and that is not fair on you. It must be really confusing. If he is happy in his new relationship, he needs to concentrate on that and stop messing with your head.
I would suggest sticking with having no contact, and try to move on from him. I honestly think you can do much better than him. It is your choice though, but I just think he will continue to play games and hurt you, and the person he is with now. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. x
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