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writes:I am engaged and me and my fiance have had sex many times before but she doesnt want to anymore because she wants to try and get back on the right spiritual path. I know that i should respect that and i do but i just hate it. i mean im sorry but i want to have sex again so bad. i mean come on we are engaged and we dont do anything sexual anymore. i mean literaly nothing. please somebody give me some kind of advice
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reader, rivi +, writes (1 August 2010):
She's talking nonsense and you have to have it out with her.
If she doesn't want to continue having the sexual side of the relationship she has to come up with a better excuse than this nonsense.
If she can't discuss what's gone wrong rationally you should really accept the incompatibility and go looking for someone who you connect with on the sexual, aswell as the other levels....
She also now probably sees you as week for putting up with her nonsense.
So you've lost her respect as well as the sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): I think your fiance's idea sucks.
Does her religion forbid pre-marital sex? If so, then she's trying to iron out her standing with their big boyz I'm sure.
But if it's strictly spiritual, what spirit is she talking about and bonding with what? You?
Dude not cool because sex was part of the original package and now she's changing the terms?
Luuucy, you have some 'splaining to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): help your fiancee with what she is doing because she is doing good.. as you already had sex, she wants to make it pleasure ever more after mariage, so she isnt thinking the bad..
remember, sex is more enjoyable after many days and with reasons.. if you think that you are mating for love and that love will give you a cute baby, you will really enjoy the orgasm and thats what God wants from you...:)
i know it is discouraging you, but you know yourself on your first night if you can control yourself now, burn the spark of love with lots of kisses on her with feelings in them, cuddle with her, but dont go inside her before marriage.. you will get the best sleep, believe me..:)
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