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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi ladies and gents, Im interested in my bf's ex, i wanna have a better idea of what she looks like and what involvement she had with my bf before i came along. I know he has made some movies with her and taken naked photos. Why do i feel the need to watch these? I suspect they are all kept on the disk he has hidden ontop of his wardrobe under a whole bunch of boxes. The disk is pretty dusty, so he hasnt touched it in a long time. Would it be wrong to take the disk and watch my bf have sex with his ex?I've asked him about her and the things she did for him, he goes red and says he shouldnt talk about those things with me, if i pressure him for more info he just says he likes natural redheads/gingers, and she was ginger and that turned him on about her. Am i sick for wanting to find out what she was like for him? And watch their old movies? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): That is crazy, you cant do that! Whatif the ex is slimmer/prettier/ better in bed than you? You'll be eaten up with feelings of jealousy and inadequacy.
Please dont do that to yourself. You will regret it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): I agree with the other posters. Who in gods name wants that kind of crap running in their head? if you watch those you will forever compare your sex life with theirs. If he wanted that type of sex... (he would still be making the videos with her) not be there with you. So save your self the agony and tell him to get them out! and btw.. their sex life is absolutely none of your business. As if you two were to split the intimacy you have shared with him is none of the next persons business. In that respect you owe the man props! also would you want him showing videos of you and him to the next maybe gf? get those things out and if you do end up making your own (take them with ya if ya go)
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Most girls hate hearing about their boyfriend's ex, especially encounters in the bedroom. Most guys feel the same hearing about their predescesors. Your boyfriend probably just doesn't want you to get upset. Remember, they split up for a reason. Maybe he's not proud of his past with her.Watching the video will probably only upset you. However, in most cases, when a girl asks her boyfriend about his exes, it's normally because she feels inadequate. To make yourself feel better, why don't you suggest to your boyfriend, taking pictures or videos of your own?
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