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writes:ok so im 15 and my bf is 17.i do love him with all of my heart and normally we talk about anything, but this topic is just too embarrassing for me to bring up (though im sure hed have no problem talking about it). so hes not a virgin, and i am.and it bothers me to know i wont be his first, and also that i wont have a clue about what im doing, and he does, and that he may compare me to the other 3 girls...i just feel like he has soooo much experance and i have none. he can sit there n talk about sex and joke about it and it makes me uncomfortable, and i would try to explain that to him, but i dont think he would get my point of view...so what do i do?how am i supposed to bring this up? any advice/awnsers at all would be VERY much apperciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you guys.it was just bothering me, and im gald its cleared up. i know i should be proud of my virginity, but believe it or not people actually pick on you for it....which sucks..but anyways im sure its nothin we cant talk out, however akward that may be....but i appreciate all ur awnsers n thanks again (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): Maybe it should bother you. It's not wrong to want to share your first time with another virgin.
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reader, werther  +, writes (1 August 2010):
talk to him and tell him, just like you did now...
just cuz he had three(or so he says) previous partners doesn´t mean he´s a great sexpartner...
in the long run it won´t matter...
however you two could be great together,
you two are exploring this thing together, it can only happen for you two, with anyone else it would be different.
when it´s right for you , then you can start having sex, and it seems like he and you know that.....
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 What on earth bothers you about virginity? You should be a proud young lady and covet it until you get married or at least until you know it's the right thing. If he was proficient at skdyving and you were not would it be different? Don't fret over it he may be "playing you' so be cautious. guys do that you know.
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