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writes:Hi i am a female of 25, i have done masters and was a brilliant student throughout besides this i was an innocent, loving and coward girl, simply had no idea of what goes on in outer world and how corrupt people deceive and abuse girls. Someone deceived me due to my innocence and i lost my virginity. He was already married, had three children and it was his hobby to abuse girls. I tried to commit suicide after all this but somehow survived, no one knows about it, now my parents want to mary me but i am feeling ruined because i just don't know how to conceal this from my life partner that i am not a virgin. I belong to very respectable family and i myself never went out for dating or had any male friend in these 25 years of my life. please someone help me to find any way of not letting my husband know that i am not a virgin, otherwise my life is completely finished.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): Or how about you be extremely honest with him and disclose all the very fine details of that part of your life with him along with all the emotions that went in your mind? When guys know that they can trust a girl with full confidence, they don't care about anything else. Men want virgins for the reason that they can be trusted to be with them only for their whole lives. Tell your future hubby that you weren't a "corrupted" girl or anything and that you were made use of. Do not forget to mention your suicide attempt with him. Convey an extremely emotion message with him being as honest as humanly possible. He might not only accept you for what you are, but might just help you out of this problem also!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): hi,
- Tell ur mother ...because in a situation like this u need her support... don't tell anyone about ur affair "DONT" people talk
- With regards to ur life partner is he educated .. smart what do u feel about him.. u need to analyze this before making a next more
- There is a procedure to use to restore the virginity
"consult gynecologist/surgeon, they will advice you properly. there are some surgical methods to restore hymen layer. Hymen Layer is a kind of layer which get penetrated during sexual intercourse or any other physical work outs like cycling etc. SO VISIT ANY DOCTOR"
"hope this help"
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