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writes:I have been with the same guy for a long time, almost 2 years. When we first got together, the sparks were amazing, but now there gone. It's more like a friendship then a relationship. In fact, we were friends before we were together, so we have been close for more then 4 years. Well, a new guy moved in down the street and there were instant sparks. A few days after meeting him I went to the gym, and he was there. We went rock climbing, and he spotted me, and helped me out. Sparks were flying the whole time. Now I don't know what to do. Dump my old bf for him? Or stay with my current bf and act as if nothing ever happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): You have a 2 year old boyfriend? Sorry but the title to this question is gas.
Op it is possible that your relationship with your current boyfriend has stagnated, you have to ask yourself whether you're in love with him or not. Forget about sparks for a moment because they go after a while especially in a relationship that has lasted as long as yours has. This new guy might just be a spark and nothing else.
Consider what you want with your life and whether you want to continue being with your current boyfriend. Don't even put this other guy in the equation. Don't get involved any further with this new guy until you have sorted out your feelings for your boyfriend, perhaps you do really love him and it's just that things have gotten a bit routine and you need to liven it up a little.
Or perhaps it's the fact that he's 2 years old! haha sorry I had to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): But seriously, I'd say think carefully , this new guy hasn't even properly hung out with you yet so I wouldn't take action at the moment.
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