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*ollegeguy1989
writes:Ok I have a question about someone's sexuality. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now and I think her brother might be gay or bisexual at least.About him - he is 26, likes shoes a lot! He had a job that was dressing people, like what you see at Tillys and stuff. He wears skinny jeans sometimes. He claims over and over and he hates and is disgusted by homosexuals, transexuals, bisexuals, etc. Like he does not go too overboard about it, but does say it if we talk about someone we know that is gay or whatever. But he does not talk gay at all..even sounds straighter than me lol.I am not into stereotypes because they are not always true. Me and my girlfriend, friends, and him drink together sometimes. When we are drunk, I am weird and will slap his butt sometimes and say somethings like "you have a nice butt" and stuff like that lol. I am joking but he will turn around and put his hand on my butt lol and slap it back...its weird because if he hates gays that much..why would he do that, even as a joke.Now, this is the main reason why I am asking this. About a month ago we were all drunk and i was sitting with him at the table, and to get my attention he grabbed my hand and the whole time he was talking to me, he was rubbing it. then afterwards, shortly, he said that I am good looking. Like I get it, he was drunk...but its just some things do not add up. Also a week ago for his birthday, he was thanking people for the presents and it was his family and me, and he was kissing his family and thanking them (which is normal). Then, he went to me, hugged me, and kissed me on the cheek. Like I have known him a while, we are kindaaa closee, but he is closer with other guys and I have NEVER seen him do any of that with them. Even my girlfriend will tell me that he likes me a lot, way more than past boyfriends, I never seem him like that with any guy. Last, when i said bye to him (me and my gf live a few hours away), he said his birthday was fun and that he loves me and cant wait to see me again. But as we are gone, he will text my gf (his sister) a lot, but will text me once in a while, so that throws me off a little haha.He is skinny and I am not skinny, but i am not HELLA fat, so a huge part of me thinks he is just trying to be nice..so its confusing.Sorry for it being long, I just want to give something to work with so I can get better opinions..so What do you think?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Who knows if he's gay or not.... wait untill you see him make a pass at someone and then you'll know for sure.
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reader, collegeguy1989 +, writes (7 April 2010):
collegeguy1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol you guys are funny. I can definitly see why you guys think that way about me because of the detail, it's only because I have been thinking about it lately because I never thought about it. I am happy with my relationship right now and would never do anything to jeopardize it. I am only asking about him. So far thank you! I like seeing what others think...well obviously because why else would i ask haha.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (7 April 2010):
Yes, it dose sound like you are very interested in him. You like to touch his butt, and you remember tons of things about him, like what he's like with other men and who he kisses and how.
You might need to think closely about your own sexuality.
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