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*am04313
writes:Dear all,My girl and me had a fight. We did not speak for about 3 months now we are back to talking terms. But she says she does not want to forgive me. She is talking to me because i told her to. she still cares for me. I cant handle the tension any more feels like i am heading for a breakdown.I so want her to be back.What can i do?? Please help!!!!
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reader, sam04313 +, writes (7 April 2010):
sam04313 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni guess you are right!!!!!! I yelled at her Once and i guess i dint really understand her. But i realiaed that and i do want to make up for the past. but she wouldnt listen.
We had fights before but she came back in time..this time its quite serious...i just dnt understand what do so that i can make her understand what i actually feel..she does care for me a lot. do you think she'll come back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): You havent said what the fight was about or why she hasnt forgiven you. If the break up was over a major issue she may not want to go back to you at the moment and you cant force her to. Thats where your problem seems to lie. You are driving yourself crazy trying to make her do something she is not ready or willing to do. Youve said she is talking to you now. Because you want her to. So start there. Instead of trying to make her return. Just talk and try to rebuild a relationship so that she wants to return. Better that, than drive yourself to a breakdown because shes not returning when ordered. Be patient and if she really doesnt want to go back to you, you will have to respect her wishes.
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