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writes:My wife and I have been married for 7 years. She cheated on her first husband. She now wants to role play and have me pick her up in a bar - she never had the experience of dating, and now she wants me to pick her up and take her somewhere for sex as if it's a one night stand. This seems weird to me - what does this really mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): Indulge her. She's being open and honest with you. Not common for most women especially when it comes to sexual things...
Have some fun. She's acting out a fantasy, with you. Better than with someone else right?
Even if she does play hard to get and flirts, so what? At the end of the night you know she's coming home with you! :) it can even be an ego boost. Try it but really go all out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): Hi. Im just wondering how your wife managed to marry twice but has never had the experience of dating? This might be her way of telling you she is bored or she may just want to fulfill a fantasy. You sound as if you think its the former and if she likes it too much she might actually start doing it with real strangers. Help her with her fantasy if you think its innocent. If you have underlying concerns,address those first.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Not really weird, she is just looking to fulfil her fantasy. Just be thankful she wants to do this with you and not some stranger. Your not doing any harm by playing along with her, you never know it might spice things up between you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I don't think it means anything, your wife wants a bit of fun and guess what she wants it with YOU, she is asking you to role play with her, and pick her up at a bar. Relax, and give the woman what she wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): It means exactly what she said it does - its a fantasy that she has not experienced and would like to do so with you.
Her cheating on her first husband has nothing to do with anything. In fact, she would rather act out her fantasy with you than cheat.
This is not weird and it doesn't mean anything deep either. If you are comfortable with it, I think you should go ahead and fulfil her wishes.
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