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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy whom i know from past 2 months....we met through some common friends...he said he found me cute and stuff...honestly i found him cuter :-) we started chatting online, on phone, text messages etc....he was the guy i always wanted....he too admitted that he likes talking to me and ol...but he hasnt asked me out till now and even if he does i would say no because he is in india for just a month more...he is studying abroad...and i personally hate long distance relationships...but these days we talk to each other a lot...infact sometimes we spend our whole night talking on phone...but somewhere we need to draw a line...we are just friends...plese tell me how to control my urge of talking to him because we have no future together...i am getting too attached to him and i dont want that at all...plzzzz help me... :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): the only way to not get too attached to him is to stop talking to him. try to get yourself busy with other routines. you kind of fall into this routine of talking to him every night and you need to develop a new set of routines. i know it is not easy. i totally understand the feeling.. i went through this relationship with somebody who i truly believed was my soulmate, but had to end it because we had no future together... it was really really tough...until now i still think about him many times, but you just need to move on with your lives.
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