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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a serious relationship over for a year and a half. Occasionally, when I go out with my friends, I make out with other girls. My boyfriend is aware of this. However, the other night, I ended up sleeping with another girl. Should I tell him? And is it considered cheating? Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Of course it's cheating! What sex you cheat with makes no difference. Why did you sleep with this other girl? Maybe you want their attention because your boyfriend isn't enough for you?
If you want to keep your boyfriend then I suggest you stop now.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 In answer to your question, yes.
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reader, bOROi +, writes (6 April 2010):
When you are intimate with other than your partner, you are cheating him, irrespective whether the other person is female or male. Simple as that!!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 and why should not be considered cheating ? Because the person you have been intimate with was a female rather than a male ?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 It is considered cheating because you had an emotional or physical attachment to another person other than your b/f.
As to whether to tell him , you will have to use your own discretion.
Can he accept the truth and forgive you ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): Yes. It's cheating when you even make-out with another girl. If you have intimate contact with anyone other than your significant other, you're cheating. I don't care what your excuse is. End of story.
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