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anonymous
writes:Me and my GF are very comfortable with our relationship. We have always tried new things and been honest with each other about things we don't want to try and we respect those limits completely.My GF organized a FFM several years ago and has never directly asked for retribution in the form of a MMF. However, I do know that a MMF does interest her and it does me, I just have to build up the courage to go through with it. We've done a lot of things together and I think the MMF is the limit that I can handle, not sure if there is really anything else on the other side of that even.Anyways, I am feeling up to it lately and the communication is great and all and I want to give her the experience. However, how do I go about it?She has also mentioned that she has always been curious about interracial sex. Is it best to kill two birds with one stone per say, or do we ease our way in?Also I don't think she is the one to plan her own party, she planned the FFM, but she was doing that more intended for my pleasure, even though we both enjoyed it. I feel she wants me to surprise her with the event. So I guess that also brings the question forward, do I just get an "escort" to strip for her and see where it leads? Tell him she's calling the shots whether or not to proceed or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): She knows my tastes in woman. Obviously a duplicate of her would turn me on, but she also knows that I don't get turned on by blondes, I prefer brunettes and redheads. She knows all the figure types I like, etc. She picked the person, time, place, etc.
I knew it was coming, but didn't really know how it was going to happen. I think my wife would psyche herself out if she knew it was coming and get cold feet, where as if I just surprised her I think she would be caught in the moment.
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reader, raiders +, writes (6 April 2010):
 don't go and get an escort or stripper that might even offend your girlfriend. My suggestion is to ask her straight out, if she does want to have that experience let her choose the man, it has to be someone she finds attractive.
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