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writes:If you've been deeply influenced through martial arts (brainwashed) to be "under" the teacher and have been in a serious relationship with him for 10 years, what are some resources to help deprogram the subconscious if all other avenues of strength and holistic help have been exhausted? Self hypnosis as well as Bill Harris clips and the Monroe Institute training has been ineffective in achieving this.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): Thank you LonelyTwo, you are right on target ... after over 10 years of relationship it's easier said than done, see there are also numerous things I enjoy about the relationship as well, it seems as though subconscious delusion or brainwash to me because I tend to be stronger most of the time than others, believe it or not a mentor type, it boggles me how I choose to endure vs overcome and make things happier for myself. Numerous outside influences are involved in negative framing for me, although it didn't bother me for several years because I see things a bit differently than family and friends - after years the 'negative behavior patterns' seem to have penetrated me during what feels like times of a broken spirit. Brainwashing in this instance evolves around mantras that were required / steps and rules to follow and live by that specifically states the Teacher is always right and you always do what he says...
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 I've taken martial arts classes but I've never heard of being brainwashed or under the teacher... nothing weird at all happened to me... which one were you studying?
I would leave, find another instructor who doesn't brainwash you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 If nothing works, leave him or go to someplace where he cannot meet you and his influence will wane.
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