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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, we've had our ups and downs, but we really love each other. We dont live together anymore because neither of us can afford it (we both pay for our own schooling and work full time, etc etc), but we see each other during the week at class and I spend the weekend with him at his mom's. This is usually the only time we can be intimate, but when he initiates I'm just not into it. I'd rather just cuddle and relax with him than have sex. We usually end up having sex, but like I said I really dont feel like it. I just want to chill. Sex just seems so mundane nowadays. Is this normal? Does this mean I love him less? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYa maybe I am stressed. We used to have sex all the time before life happened. Even though I may not want to have sex, in the end all his hard work does pay off. I guess I just wanted to know if this was normal.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 You could be tired and stressed from school and work and do not have the energy for sex.
Hence , you find sex is so mundane. It could also be a lack of sexual experience on his side and as a result , he is unable to make you sexually satisfied.
Perhaps you have a low sex drive because of those factors above.
It does not mean that you love him less.
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