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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My Ex B/f is my neighbour. I do not know why he left me after having 8 good years together. During those years, I and my family did a lot to make him stand financially and in almost every way.My parents treated him as their own child. But he left me and got married with a girl of his/his family's choice (2 years ago) saying that he is doing this due to family pressure (which is not true I feel). Now I regularly see his wife and him together which makes me very upset. (even this thought of being them together makes me sick). He is not even seemed guilty of his doings.It is very hard to face this situation.It troubles me a lot. Pls advice how to overcome this. Luck is also not favouring me in any way. I always show them all that I am very happy and confident but actually when ever I m alone I burst into tears.Feeling very low. Please write to me your opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): I know exactly how you feel! I've moved to this place and my ex is an estate agent. He helped me to find it and only later I found out that he lives in the same building with his partner and a child. She is expecting a new child again. I can't explain my feelings towards this situation. I so much want to find someone as well in my life but it's just not happening and I am still single. I dont think it's humiliation that is bothering you, but just seeing someone creating a family in front of your eyes! And for some reason you can not be sincerely happy about it!Sometimes I ask myself - am I jealous about them? But why? What for? Especially if someone made their choice. It is just hard to move on. And I feel very lonely as well. We speek with my ex and are good friends and this makes things just worse...I just want to be happy too. And dont want all this to put in front of my eyes every day! I feel very upset and unhappy about it. It kind of ruins my life and am not that stable, strong and confident as I used to be. I feel like I am pure girl and even my ex feels pity of me sometimes.I dont know what to do and how to get over this situation. Moving out is not an option! But how can I live with this further I have no idea... I'm probably not the best adviser - sorry...
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