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writes: i am a 32 years old guy in a relationship with a 25years old girl. She is someone i truly love and have made it known to her that i intend to marry her. Truly i mean this. But my problem is the age - difference between us. At one point i feel she is the one i need. At another time i tend to feel she is too young for me - her conversation is usually not matured enough; Another thing that worries me about the relationship is that she just graduated, so yet to find a job. sometimes this makes me feel i'm not doing the right thng as i should have been in a relationship intead with someone who is working as life is much easier this way! Like i mentioned earlier, i truly love her but my mind swings. Did i make mistake somewhere? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Illithid +, writes (7 April 2010):
That's no problem, really. People twice as far apart make it work. If she's alright with it and you can be alright about it, then it's perfectly fine. And think about this, in ten years you'll be 42 and 35. That doesn't seem so bad now, does it?
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