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writes:So.. I've really gotten myself into a mess now. Here's the summary of the situation: I'm in a relationship with a very sweet guy, who would never even dream of doing anything to hurt me, yet i feel nothing for him. Romanticly, anyways. (hope that's spelled right).Anyway, the guy I really care for, (very much. i've never felt this strongly for anyone before) lives 400 miles away. We text all day, and call each other at night, for over a year now, and we never get sick of talking. But its almost impossible that i'll be seeing him for a few years. And i'm getting tired of crying myself to sleep over him.What should i do? I just don't want to hurt anymore, and i don't want to end up hurting someone else either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, but i need to make a correction, he actually lives over 1,000 miles away, or at least 21 hours of driving. That's why its so hard to go see him. But thanks for your help (: i know that long distance relationships rarely work, but hopefully we'll figure something out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): I too was that guy who lived 600 miles away from my girlfriend for 3 and half years. Many times she tried to have a relationship with another guy but always ended up talking with me way more than anyone else so she would leave her non LDR for me an LDR. I know exactly how ur feeling, me and my gf felt that same way towards eachother. Unfortunately she left me a month ago so I lost what I had =( but to me sounds like u got something. I would do some thinking, it's possible that ur LDR bf is the one u truly have feelings for. Be careful though Long distance relationships have a tendancy to fail if the distance doesn't come to an end within time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't go see him because i don't have the money for gas and i can't miss any work or school.
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reader, rose007  +, writes (6 April 2010):
why can't u see him? can't he visit you or u go visit him?
I think that if you feel nothing for your current bf you should break it off now instead of leading him on and hurting him more in the future. And this other guy if he feels the same way maybe you can try a long distance relationship.
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