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writes:this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do anything for him?also what are the signs that a man is visiting prostitutes and how can you catch them out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): I believe men do it because they can. kinda lowers your oppion of him I guess. I think men act like animals so my rule is if he's gonna watch porn, pick up hookers and get his fix behind my back then so can I. never piss off a woman cause then we get even.I attribute my whorish behavior to the men who screwed me over.lol and I have a good time knowing I'm getting even.it justs makes me feel better knowing the playing field is level.
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reader, Dave177  +, writes (28 May 2010):
Personally, I went to a prostitute just to see what the big deal was about. I made sure I chose a reputable place with attractive and...upper class women. If you'll see my previous posts you'll find out that it didn't work out so well for me, but hey, at least I know that.
Apparantly the emotional involvement of sex is important to me, and trust me I'm just as surprised as anyone else could be. Some people don't need that involvement and to be honest, I can see the attractio of them. It's honest and up front (Something a relationship rarely is), cheaper than going to a bar and buying some skank drinks and so long as you're going to a reputable place you're less likely to catch something.
You can't tell me that in no way can you see how safe, no strings attached sex could be an attractive idea to anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): calling a prostitute a slut/whore is the actual truth. a promiscuous woman. that is the definition of both words, and is exactly what prostitutes are.
do you people honestly think its ok for women to be selling their bodies and for men to pay for it?
it doesn't matter if she is a crack head or upper class.
would you people who think its ok want a partner who did this? if its so normal then why not hey?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (12 April 2010):
 It is a pity that so many women feel the need to put other women down...skanks, hoes, drug addicted, ugly... blah, blah, blah...
I'm confident enough to feel sorry that some women are driven to sell their bodies for money, and probably a little jealous that they are so good looking many men are willing to pay... lol
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reader, Yos  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 For the same reasons women buy shoes.
For pleasure. To feel attractive and sexual. For the thrill of it. Because it's only about and for himself. To experience 'out of the ordinary'. To sleep with women he couldn't do otherwise. Or to get to sleep with women at all.
I don't really approve of it, but then I've been fortunate with finding girlfriends. Personally I'm not going to judge a guy who can't get it any other way and treats the girl with respect. As long as men want sex and some women need money, it's always going to be with us. Well, at least until 3D fully immersive porn becomes available, so pretty soon probably...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Because it's cheaper than dating/cheating but without the drama or because it allows guys who have no social skills the opportunity for companionship. And while the stereotypes persist that these ladies are all tramps and crack-addicted streetwalkers, the truth is many, if not the majority, are middle class and no different than any woman reading this article.Signs your man may be visiting escorts/prostitutes.....he always comes home late but leaves the office on time, always making atm withdrawls, has a separate (private) cell phone he doesn't want you to know about, same thing with a private email, always hides what he's doing on the internet, often comes home from a long day at the office smelling freshly showered, stops pestering you for sex....just to name a few.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): I also think the big anon post ranting about men was amusing. Clearly someone who sees all gender issues through one-sided glasses.
I won't argue with her because there is no point. Her mind is made up and she is not going to consider a more realistic view on things. I don't know what problems drove her to that view but I doubt they were from the actions of evil oppressive men alone.
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (11 April 2010):
 We should have a "Rhetorical Questions" section on this site. Sometimes a man, or boy depending on the country's laws(and if such as country exists I might visit...joke) needs sex without strings. Maybe they want something their significant other refuses to provide or, and this is pretty likely, they just don't have minutes to waste of foreplay. In addition to these already valid reasons, not all prostitutes are crack fiends with yellow teeth. Contradictory to common belief, prostitutes aren't stupid, therefore, they realize that the more attractive they look, the more clients they acquire and,consequently, the more Benjamins, or Hamiltons (depending on how much they charge)
All rambling and immaturity aside, they do it because of lust and sometimes, even a beautiful wife can't stop that temptation. I'm not saying these reasons are justified, I'm just saying what it is.
How to catch them out? Timetable change, behavior change, all the obvious stuff.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 It is sex-and not female- really a free gift of nature. Sex pleasure is free, but nature of social system is such that make sex a payable property, by imposing unnatural morality. It is society that encourage 'jealousy' as a moral worth, and make free sexual contact impossible. Really on sexual matter, male and female are not enjoying one vision, but social vision about sex, which say that sex without marriage is sin. It is against parent, against god, against other relations. Both male and female use double standard...that make system of prostitute necessary.
It is not exclusively male that want sex, and female that supply the wanting of male. It is not and it should not be a market place for sex, but social moral make sex as a salable property, like food home medicine etc, which is proper. Sex do not come under the province of demand and supply law...it is nature's freest gift, without any investment, but society make sex as a payable property.
It is wrong to say that male want variety, and female are like saint, of course society has impose such characters on female, but it is imposition, a forceful imposition. In our modern age, few female dare to admit that they too dream for variety, they too feel the desire to have sex in many different conditions, like threesome etc.
We need some definition. It is wrong to say that wife is unpaid prostitute. Sex with volition do not constitute market. Chief character of prostitution is that it is marketable...subject to law of demand and supply for fixing price according to quality.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Many prostitutes are extremely attractive.They make their money by being charming, entertaining and flattering, unlike her indoors.
She will be probably be much more sexually experienced and more accomplished than most wives too.
They tend to be younger and more energetic. They are also prepared to do things which her indoors might draw the line at.
Men often prefer sex without a relationship.
reference;-
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/minette_marrin/article3559363.ece
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (10 April 2010):
There are all kinds of prostitutes. There are the high end ones who are very beautiful ,young , sexy ,famous and very well educated.
There are also those young ones ,just out of their teens pushing their wares.
Lumping all prostitutes as dirty crack addicts presents only the worst side of this profession. That is not a true picture of prostitution .Not all prostitutes are drug addicts.
It is the easy money and the benefits they bring to them that attracts many girls into prostitution.
Some one said , there is not much of a difference between marriage and prostitution.
The women who take husbands not out of love but out of greed, to get their bills paid, to get a fine house and clothes and jewels; the women who marry to get out of a tiresome job, or to get away from disagreeable relatives, or to avoid being called an old maid -- these are whores in everything but name. The only difference between them and my girls is that my girls gave a man his money's worth.
Polly Adler
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reader, LoveGirl  +, writes (9 April 2010):
Have you noticed how many men expect their wives/gfs to be pure and decent yet either turn to thie mistress to f*ck them good or pay for it witht he ladies of the night. These men are hypocrites! They cannot even satisfy their own partners fully or they are surprised and question when their wives/gfs want to try/ try something new. They would rather do the dirty with their mistresses /prostitutes than be open about their likes/dislikes in bed. What these men fail to realise is this: while they are out f*cking someone else who is takng care of their wive/gf? Another man! Ha,ha. They are so stupid that they cannot and wold not believe that their committed partner also oves to have sex. I will repeat what I always say: married women love to screw , they just do not want to be screwed over! So men who seek sexual gratificatin elsewhere remove your blinkers, and repeat after me: my wife also wants a good f*ck. Say it and start believing it and remember your partner will and can find sex away from you.
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reader, twinlab99  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Men turn to prositutes becaue they want oral sex....bottom line. Keep the oral sex alive....and they wont' turn to them....anyone care to disagree...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):
Lots of less desirable men cannot get female attention without paying for it.
I don't know what makes this so hard for most women to accept. But this is the truth. Any man on earth, attractive or not, will tell you the same.
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reader, sweetspicy +, writes (8 April 2010):
 I have a lot of male friends and think I have the answer to your question. It's very simple actually in fact most guys are very simple. They love what they have at home and want to keep it at home what they also love is variety, a variety of ice cream, shirts, and woman. They have the one that they think is perfect at home but still it's like what if they're missing out and want to try and explore everything that they havn't tasted yet. They do this in secret because they know what they have at home and dont want to loose her. Yes in my opinion its nasty especially with so many diseases out there. The only thing I can think of to catch a guy in the act is to invade his privacy by bugging his car/jacket with a high-tec listening device or hire a private investgator wich will cost you.
well good luck and be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): You say you will do anything but do you take the initiative and do stuff a little kinky? I think a lot of women just let the guy do it all. My wife never did anything on her own and it drives me crazy.
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reader, jaime90 +, writes (7 April 2010):
 it is pathetic to have to pay for sex. there is no excuses for it. even if you have had no sexual contact with a female, why on earth would you want your first experience of sex to be with someone who does it over and over again each day with disgusting men.
you are sticking yourself in a hole that literally just had another guy cum in it. um YES thats pathetic. to pay to have sex with someone like that. to pay to have your dick touching some other guys cum.
im sick of people making excuses, what has society come to that we will make excuses for prostitutes and the sleazebags who pay for them?
here is an idea for all these men who are apparently so incapable of being with women, how about instead of paying for a slut spend that time and money developing some real social skills?
and furthermore, no respectful woman will want these guys after they have done it, so they are basically securing their lonely future.
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reader, Blair_1989 +, writes (6 April 2010):
Hi, firstly a majority of Prostitutes do do it for drug addiction but there are an equal amount out there that are known as escorts or posh prostitutes or as i like to call them posh-titutes!
A Male may go to a Prostitute to pursue a sexual fantasy he is afraid to tell his partner about this includes fetishs such as S and M, feet, choking etc there are to many fetishs to name!
the best way to find out is 2 firtly ask and watch the reaction, you will know if your partner is lieing by the way they react,
a friend of mine recently acidently found out her boy friend was seeing a prostitute she was gettin some money and acidently pulled out a card with a number and name on it, so if you feel this is necessary you may look in his wallet or phone but this is also a breach of privacy an can be very damageing to a relation ship if untrue!
the signs that a man is cheating with another woman or a Prostitute are unusal activity on the phone ( callin or texting more) unusual tinme on the internet ( many men find Prostitutes/pimps/ on the internet or chat rooms) so maybe a check in to your internet history, also going out to unusual places they wouldnt normally go to or having many business meetings that didnt happen before, and of course going out at unusual times.
I hope this has helped a little bit! Good Luck, B xo
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reader, jaime90 +, writes (6 April 2010):
i don't know the sings but why - they are pathetic. pretty simple really. they are losers, and really they are worse then the prostitutes themselves because they are the ones paying.
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