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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I am dating a man of 11 years who is older than me and especially in the past 5 years he has been behaving in very concerning ways toward other women. He was much a gentleman for the first 5 years, however I'm not sure what caused such change... hormones? Hereditary? Or could he just have stopped liking me - still attractive and independent, more caring toward his parents easy going...Is there a physiological issue to be concerned with?He goes out of his way to go to beaches to look at college girls during spring break, which he's never done before since we've been together and he converses in different sexuality tones to the banks (workers) he goes to etc., as well as other local business gals he works with - maybe getting insecure with the aging issue and putting more out there to get confirmation he's still a catch?Without verbal assurance - I don't believe in ego stroking too much, are there some dietary suggestions I can incorporate into my cooking to help or actions intellectually or in everyday living to solidify my happiness
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): If hes been doing it for the past 5 years my question would be, why have you put up with his strange behaviour for so long. Going out of his way to travel to beaches so he can watch women sounds rather creepy. Just tell him if he wants to continue dating you, he has to stop behaving like a pervert. As for flirting with women when hes out. Again tell him he has to stop. His behaviour sounds very unattractive and unreasonable. I dont think his diet has anything to do with the way he choses to behave. As suggested. Stop cooking for him. I certainly wouldnt be cooking for a man that hurting my feelings and disrespecting me like that. Dont be a doormat x
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 April 2010):
What you can do is tell him to stop flirting with other women in front of you or you'll leave him.
There is nothing wrong with either of you having a bit of a flirt with a stranger when you are out alone.
But you always ALWAYS put the feelings of your partner first.
Stop cooking for him and give him a kick up the arse. That should help.
Good Luck!! xx
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