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writes:im 15 years old and i run track. my coach is 33 years old and married and i think im in love with him. he's so sweet and helpful and he always encourages me. he's just so wonderful. and i dont know what to do. he sometimes flirts a lil, but not anything outragous. i really like him but i try not to flirt. im kind of shy around new people, and this is my first year running track. so i dont talk to him that much. but the past couple days he's been acting kinda unusual. he's not as friendly and doesnt pay me as much attention as he usually does. i think the problem might be that he thinks i like his younger brother. (who is 17 and goes to my school. he's very cute and really popular). i have a little crush on him but nothing too bad. well, some of my friends are telling people that im soo obbsessed with the 17 year old and that i would do a bunch of really naughty things with him. which isnt true. and now im affraid the 17 year old may have told my track coach all the stuff about me. i just dont know what to do. i really like my track coach, (though i know he is older and a relationship will probably never ever happen). and i dont want him to get all these wrong ideas about me because of what people are saying about me and his brother. =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): As Laura1318 has said, I don't think your coach is concerned about rumors going around about you and his younger brother. He has a wife.
Also, it's natural for a coach to be encouraging and helpful to his team members.
Just forget about him. It'll help your coach too since he is an adult and you're not even the legal age. You don't want him losing his job if anything were to occur b/w you two, do you?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 I think he felt that he went overboard with you and have now withdrawn back to a safe territory.
He is getting more professional with your training and is careful not to over do on the personal side.
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