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*tsAlwaysMe
writes:ok this guy thinks im like super gorgeous and we have been txting each other for the past few days hes a freshmen and im a sophmore. im not very experienced in kissing like where to put my hands, when to stop, what to say afterwards, and im pretty sure hes gonna ask me out! my longest relationship has been like 2 weeks sooo i am clueless about how this whole thing works so help!! btw hes a hottie!! D:
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): dont worry everone feels nervous when they are about to have their first kiss... all you have to do is follow his lead, thats what i did. after i was like "that was easy" its no big deal after, then you get better and better the more times you kiss.
when you kiss him just put your arms around him (like a cuddle) while your kissing touch his face nice and softly, after you have kissed him dont worry about what to say im sure you both will have some sort of conversation so dont worry about that part. and stop kissing him when you feel like it or when he pulls away, but anyway you honestly have nothing to worry about, kissing is very easy after your first kiss, so go for it and do it!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 April 2010):
Everyone is clueless about this.
The scaryness is what makes it so exciting.
Would you enjoy a rollercoaster as much if you spend 3 hours reading up on the safety mechanisms and how the hydrollics work? Nope.
Just kiss him and put your hands where it feels nice for you. If you think he's got a really nice body then put them on his chest. If you think he's got really nice hair then run your hands through it. This is YOUR kiss, do what YOU want to.
The point is for YOU to enjoy yourself, not spend the entire kiss worrying about what you can do to look good for him.
Good Luck!! xx
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